All about parenting

All about parenting

Parenting, when talked about by many was easy for others tend to tolerate their child’s attitude whether it’s good or bad. But as to this rate, parenting is much more difficult than what others thought it would be. Children, nowadays, are way worse than children before. Parents find it hard to discipline their child because being rebellious is quite observable when it comes to it. One scold at them makes them furious because what they want is to be that someone who is always right, which parents doesn’t want. This, I call “petty” misunderstanding leads to both parties rather distant.

One should learn to listen while the other one talks. When at fault, don’t wait any longer; admit it because that, surely, will resolve the conflict made. Constantly talking about matters leads to deeper understanding on each other. Without this, the tie of the parents towards their child won’t be tight. And of course, when you talk, it helps a lot, for others, like your child will in some way comprehend you.

Our society nowadays is more exposed with advanced technologies, our children we’re very much media-driven and has convenient lifestyle than the generation back then. New technologies were out which practically caught much attention to children, they were then turned to be addicted on it. With the presence of it, children happen to spend their leisure and study time with it. There, the problem arises, which makes a parent-discipline-child quite difficult. Of course, new technologies are helpful that makes a living easy. A computer for example, it has a lot uses if used wisely because there we find information that we need with just a single click, we don’t need to browse lot of books just to conduct researches. It has really a lot of advantages; however, it has lots of disadvantages too. For instance, if a person, let’s say your child, tends to overuse the computer, he’ll be more driven with the information or write-ups on it, he will eventually rely on the internet so much which, basically, is not good for not all that is written there are accurate, some are just posted there for a self benefit not the others. The other advantage about it is that, when a child is too much occupied that he engages even to pornographic stuffs and sites. Once a child starts to engage in it, more often than never, the child becomes addicted to the point that he can’t sleep or relax at times when he needs to.

As a parent, we are needed to look for our child’s status or find out what were the things our child gets fond of. Not just looking out for him but also nurture them with things that are very much helpful for your child. Parents should practice talking to their child regularly for it is one of the simplest ways yet very much helpful for your child to be informed to inform, one should read a lot so that they won’t end up lacking in any way and they won’t just stand clueless at one side when finding out something. Reading a lot helps big time because it makes parents be more aware about things that their child even hides from them. It also helps in a sense that a parent can understand her child more. A parent should always remember that the best way to interact with your child is to spend time with them and when talking, create an open-relationship towards the child because sometimes a child purposely does things to annoy parents for they seek attention.